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There are several
methods to build up confidence in your players and team. One of the most influential
sources of confidence is often past performance - success breeds confidence and
vice versa. Thus what we might call a positive confidence cycle can be
developed and this is highly linked to the technique of "goal setting". This technique
involves planning and setting goals in training for a player to achieve. These
can be short, medium or long term, must be challenging but obtainable. For example,
too difficult goals will result in players becoming frustrated. Coaches should
try to make training both fun and enjoyable. They should also reward good performance
with compliments and when failure occurs use praise/criticism techniques to advise
the players, e.g. after a poor shot: Praise
the player: "Good power in the shot..." Criticise the player: "But I think
you can improve the..." Praise the player: "I know you can do it..." Verbal
encouragement and treating players with equal respect can play an important part
in attaining the right level of confidence, especially coming from experienced
and respected coaches. Players can also encourage themselves through positive
self-talk - remember Mohammed Ali's "I am the Greatest !". Transforming thoughts
such as "What if I miss the shot" into "I will get the next one in" or "I don't
think I am good enough" into "The coaches must think so and trust me as they picked
me" will help remove inner doubt. Another source of confidence can be provided
by channelling the nervous energy produced from the stress-response into positive
thoughts. Feeling your heart beat strongly can be thought as "I am up for this"
rather than "I am scared". For more on preparing for stress and anxiety in soccer.
Players must also place total trust in their personal skills (as well as in others)
to win and be able to screen out distractions. Another
means of building up confidence is the observation and imitation of successful
players. Coaches may want to organise demonstrations, videos and practices based
on what players have seen. However, care must be taken to ensure that players
feel they cannot match that player for skill or become frustrated through failure.
Also, Mental Imagery may be employed as a means of mentally rehearsing correct
technique. The old saying practice makes perfect is also important as a
correctly prepared player will start a match knowing they are at the peak of their
form and are ready for all situations that may occur. It
is important as well that players who lose confidence do not concentrate too much
on the one area of their game where they are struggling and hide the other areas
where they are doing well. A good example is a centre-forward who is missing chances,
concentrating on all the aspects of his game such as build-up play and creating
chances for others can avoid over-emphasing the one big problem and allow the
player to see their overall importance to the team. Beswick calls this seeing
the Big Picture. Finally,
a player's personal lifestyle will affect their self-confidence. Parents of younger
players must never let their egos and dreams get the better of themselves. Children
need love, support and understanding whether they win or lose. It is essential
for players to have someone in their life to share their feelings with and who
can also help guide and provide encouragement. |